Photo by CDC on Unsplash You’ve seen it. The man who “doesn’t know how” to load the dishwasher.Who “forgets” birthdays and appointments.Who claims he’s bad at cleaning, cooking, or childcare. But somehow excels at his job, hobbies, and video games. This isn’t clumsiness. It’s strategy. What Is Weaponized Incompetence? Weaponized incompetence is when someone intentionally...
Photo by Amy Humphries on Unsplash There’s something deceptively soft about the trad wife aesthetic. Flowing dresses. Fresh bread cooling on wooden counters. Sunlight pouring through farmhouse windows. Women smiling as they homeschool children, prepare elaborate meals, and devote their lives to domestic “femininity.” It looks peaceful. Intentional. Even empowering. But beneath the linen aprons...
Photo by Sincerely Media on Unsplash In May of 2023, Gender Gazette didn’t begin as a grand vision or a long-term plan. It started as a class assignment. I was taking a Public Relations writing course and was asked to create two blog mockups: one informational and factual, and one rooted in opinion, creativity, and...
Photo by Jez Timms on Unsplash For many men, the first time they receive flowers is at their own funeral. This oft-repeated phrase isn’t just poetic — it’s sociologically revealing. It exposes how deeply patriarchy polices emotional expression, beauty, care, and softness as feminine territory, while reserving flowers for women or for death. From an...
There’s a disturbing trend hiding in plain sight: the growing normalization of sexualized language, imagery, and branding around babies and young children. What’s often brushed off as “humor,” “shock marketing,” or “relatable parenting content” is actually part of a much deeper problem — one that reflects how our culture struggles to see even children outside...
Photo by LOGAN WEAVER | @LGNWVR on Unsplash When people picture feminism, they often imagine marches, viral hashtags, and sweeping policy change. And while those moments matter, patriarchy doesn’t only live in laws — it lives in everyday habits, language, and social norms. That’s where micro-feminism comes in. Micro-feminism is the daily, often quiet resistance...
Reality TV rarely means to expose patriarchy — but this show does it anyway. Beneath the friendship drama and viral moments sits a deeply gendered system of power rooted in religion, purity culture, and rigid expectations about masculinity and femininity. When viewed through a Women & Gender Studies lens, the series becomes a case study...
Photo by Fujiphilm on Unsplash Epstein Series — Part 7 Every time an elite abuse scandal breaks, the pattern is the same: Outrage.Headlines.Think pieces.Public shock. And then — quiet. Not justice.Not systemic change.Just distraction. The case of Jeffrey Epstein wasn’t buried because it lacked evidence. It was buried because power depends on forgetting. Feminist theory...
Photo by engin akyurt on Unsplash Epstein Series — Part 6 If exploitation were random, it would affect everyone equally. But it never does. Trafficking, sexual violence, and abuse overwhelmingly target the same groups — again and again: • poor girls• runaway youth• unhoused children• girls in foster systems• migrants• those without legal or social...
Photo by Keller Chewning on Unsplash Epstein Series — Part 5 There’s a story society loves to tell whenever powerful men are exposed for extreme abuse. It goes like this: He was a monster.A freak.An outlier.Something uniquely evil. And when that man is punished (or dies), the narrative closes. Justice served. Problem solved. But that...